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's relatives this look in the eyes. After Liu Qiang car, LIU Xiu-rong no longer follow up. From that day, whether it is Liu Xiurong, or students and teachers, no longer seen Qiang, until July 2 in the morning, his body was found in Mihara Qinghe county park. Until the accident two days ago, he found the same table Qiang Zheng Rongwen message on QQ. "He told me he ran away from home QQ, and wanted me to go after free children under greeting his mother ......" For Liu Qiang's sudden departure, Zheng Rongwen endless regret. Good student, "he has learned every lesson very well, especially in mathematics," Liu Qiang home in the new town of Sanyuan County, a more remote small villages. Normally, most of the village's young men working outside,[url=http://ia26.ac-grenoble.fr/dden/hco.php]hollister[/url], so rarely seen in the young here. Speaking Liu Qiang, the villagers kept on praise: "What people learn better baby, last year after a two-line, and this year had one of." Although many villagers are not common Qiang weekdays, but his gentle demeanor quite a good impression, "baby quiet, bespectacled, scrub, I heard very good learning." Liu Qiang home three siblings,[url=http://www.sayonari.com/6th/cgi-bin/imgboard2/joyful.cgi?view=9&&]http://www.sayonari.com/6th/cgi-bin/imgboard2/joyful.cgi?view=9&&[/url], two sisters above him, at home as well as more than 90 year-old grandmother. Over the years,[url=http://www.restturas.lt/includes/cl.php]louboutin[/url], many people at home, but also for the Qiang and sisters reading, family life more constraints. A sister village, said Liu although there are 11 acres of land, but no fruit, "This year alone crops a year can earn some money " In recent years, the village people's houses gradually renovated, covered houses , down the street a new gatehouse seat are covered up. Liu's room can be the same, two big bungalows, there is no barrier walls. Liu Qiang grew like studying scores, high school after the results are often among the best. Emerging from his attending a secondary school in the town of Sanyuan County, see the information that he had degrees in 2005-2006, won the honorary title of advanced individual schools awarded. This year, the villagers were originally intended, such as the admission notice down to Liu celebration. But who knows, out of this thing. Some villagers said that after the end of the college entrance examination, Liu Qiang home big two weeks, do not always go out, and sometimes met on the road, feeling like he was wondering what was going on, but also no one to speak with him more. Home from school, many students are no longer seen Qiang. Liu Qiang Liang Kang recalled the same table, the last time I saw him was June 8, 2013 to pay the ticket office at the school when the teacher was "science questions may be more difficult this year, we are not so good answer each students face is helpless expression,[url=http://www.o4j.de/sites/gbook/system.php?p=90]hollister deutschland[/url], Liu Qiang is no exception. "Nevertheless, Liang Qiang Kang still feel than the other students would do well," he will learn very well every door, especially in mathematics, but he strengths. "Kang impression in the beam, the students will be around as long as there are problems to find him, but he did not come out too there is no solution. Although this time the entrance, a rare contact between students, but it does not mean the friendship indifferent. College Entrance Examination on the third day after the deadline, Liu Qiang initiative with QQ sent text messages to two friends. However, the message content and allows friends were a little nervous. QQ message "running away" "I'm really tired, do not want to learn ......" Liu Qiang home the day is June 27, which is completing the third day after the start volunteering. When he left the county, in addition to holding identity cards, but also with his mother to 100 dollars. On the day he left home to the county, so far there are two arguments: first, because no computer at home, voluntary reporting is not convenient; followed by rumors that he and his father had a falling out a few mouth. A villager said Liu Liu Xiurong mainly in support, Liu Qiang father, a bad temper, in addition to farming, less homely, "throughout the year are women juggle, usually to help people bagging apples, playing what day laborers , very hard. "However, this argument has been refuted Liu Xiurong relatives. In their view, although Liu Xiurong family paid a lot, but Liu Qiang's father, and sometimes can "pipe around the house very well," the relationship between father and son is also good. But Liu Qiang things in school, mainly to discuss and mother. Some, such as tuition fees, are his mother to call. However, in the next night to the county Liu Qiang, Liu Xiurong received a strange number of sent messages,[url=http://ecpss2u.com/BBS/home.php?mod=space&uid=1933]http://ecpss2u.com/BBS/home.php?mod=space&uid=1933[/url], content is obviously son. The message said he did not intend to fill volunteer,[url=http://s-solidarity.sakura.ne.jp/cgi-bin/honey/honey.cgi]http://s-solidarity.sakura.ne.jp/cgi-bin/honey/honey.cgi[/url], let her sister to help fill. Liu Xiurong not send text messages, quickly contact two daughters to give back to the past. The phone is a bathhouse owner, he explained, is a small group of children through his mobile phone to send text messages, and said, "Someone called him back," but not seen back who left. Liu's relatives said, to be able to pass on, then perhaps there would be no later thing. Liu Qiang's sister gave him fill out a volunteer, but he no longer contact with the family. Early in the morning on July 1, Liu Qiang Zheng Rongwen female students to Liu Qiang Liu Xiurong call for information. That the family did not contact him, he worried. Liu Qiang Zheng Rongwen is the same table,[url=http://www.portsunlightorchestra.org.uk/Assets/mu.php]mulberry outlet[/url], the relationship is good. She told reporters that day in the morning, she found on his QQ Liu Qiang sent to a few information content is roughly: "I ran away from home, if you have the time children helped me more than my mom ...... condolences I'm really tired,[url=http://mucchirimieppari.com/bin/mucchiribbs.cgi]http://mucchirimieppari.com/bin/mucchiribbs.cgi[/url], do not want to learn ...... "a look at SMS, her heart clench a look, quickly asked him where, and advised him to go home," I said to him, you learn so Well, they are so young, to his family, do not do this, "and finally, she even said," I beg you. " Liu Qiang QQ picture may never lit. Later, he found himself Zheng Rongwen deleted. Another friend received Qiang sent by QQ "You'll never see me again tomorrow," the words. However, people do not contact. Ideal is the "North outside" "His performance has been pretty good, but he may not be so look" Liu Qiang's mother and family in the county searched the streets, almost searched all the Internet cafes, but could not find him. After Obviously, June 27 Mihara Qiang came to town, it should be most of the time in the cafe, why then did not find quite puzzling. "Maybe he himself dissatisfied with it." Sanyuan County in the southern suburbs of a cram school student high school, almost all students in grades than their own thoughts when there will be frustrating, but this feeling, "Some people will continue was longer, it was shorter, but who do not want to be seen. "This year's college entrance examination, in terms of the Qiang is already the third time. "This year, a score is 485 points, 2 points over his." Roommate anonymity, said such a score, want to be a university admission, can only rely on "chance", two can something good professional record to the school. Liu Qiang is the last year before switching to the southern suburbs of Sanyuan County high school tuition. Although the age when early twenties, but compared to the graduating students, he is the entrance of "a veteran." "He likes to joke, you can always talk amused." Ke Qiang is and go closer to a roommate, in his impression, Liu Qiang is not a look, "the seriousness of the scholar", usually in dormitories, or Dafan when all laugh, very cheerful. But this is not much time. In the cram day, every day from 7:10 in the morning around 22:00 assigned most of the time, whether or Ke Qiang, must meet the entrance of the fighting in the battle. There are 82 students in this class, the 70 is the same as tutoring students and Liu Qiang, Liu Qiang and study hard because of the various test exam, the total top surface, "almost nothing bad subjects, Mathematics, English and more is not to say. "one student said. Even so, the entrance road to Liu Qiang, but it is not smooth. In 2011, he was in Sanyuan County, north of the city high school for the first time to take the exam, was admitted to a specialist, but he did not go on thinking about the second year of undergraduate, there is a better way. So he continued to go to the southern suburbs of middle school tutoring. Last year, he was the big bang, the success spans two lines, but because institutions reported high, and did not go into, no way, he had to choose tutoring again. "In our view, his performance has been pretty good, but he may not be so look" says classmate Zhang Guanghui,[url=http://www.luutii.ma-pe.net/wp-content/footer.php]peuterey[/url], the scores down, just raise tuition this year than last year, scored 10 points, that "he was not very cheerful. "Some students also said that his vision is the" North outside. " Pressure, what pressure he was the last straw that breaks is Teacher Zhihua Liu Qiang's death surprised. In his impression, Liu Qiang school students that are relatively quiet, though how and students exchange, but the relationship is not bad. Moreover, from the circumstances of his tuition see increased each year, which has been quite difficult. "Tutoring students, of which there is no pressure, but before, I really do not see one o'clock signs." Zhihua said he usually very careful student learning state, there is a case,[url=http://www.portsunlightorchestra.org.uk/Assets/hco.php]hollsiter sale[/url], will take the initiative to ease, but Liu Qiang gave him the feeling that is practical Good student learning, with no bad habits and abnormal behavior. From what he said at the same table with the "runaway", it seems that the pressure from larger families. It is learned that his family was poor, from junior high school when he read, the family began to bustle his tuition. 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Between the students, the original difference is not large,[url=http://www.colors-st.com/mobile/epad/epad.cgi]http://www.colors-st.com/mobile/epad/epad.cgi[/url], basically from the dormitory to the dining hall, to the classroom, learning life-style three-point line, but somewhat dull it. In memory of roommates, Liu Qiang occasionally to relax, playing badminton. "To say the pressure, and we may have, of course, the longer the time for tutoring, the greater the pressure." Ke roommate said that even learning pressure, he has never heard of Liu Qiang complain achievement, more heard him complain about his family, "is that sometimes, you will find that he will be a man quietly pumping a few cigarettes." Who does not know what he was the last straw that breaks is Tutoring students how not to be overwhelmed by an exam Recently, the national college entrance examination tutoring students multiple suicide on June 9, the entrance standard answer is revealed that night, Yingkou City, Liaoning Dashiqiao repeat candidate Li (pseudonym) away from home. A few days later, the family received a police call, Li Anshan suburbs in death by drowning, who also took this year's college entrance ticket. When run away bags filled with stones. Family said Li Xin last 447 minutes is enough two scores, but his biggest dream is to be admitted to a key university. So, before choosing to repeat. After June 12, his father finished, "I committed suicide," this six-word message, Dalian City, 19-year-old Yang Yang (pseudonym) from their own 15 upstairs jump, ending his young life. This year's college entrance examination, is lengthy third time, the first two are the reasons because scores with their own eyes the university missed. This time, he did not wait for the college entrance examination results announced,[url=http://www.portsunlightorchestra.org.uk/Assets/mu.php]mulberry sale[/url], it made this extreme decision. After the evening of June 22, Sichuan Chongzhou second reference girl reading SAT score of Yang Yuan messages, select the wrists, ingesting pesticide to end their lives. Her college entrance examination this year, the total score 454 points, while the third installment of Sichuan Province, College Entrance undergraduate admission control scores 460 points. Different tutoring students and graduating students, "has been no turning back" before and after this year's college entrance examination results announced, tutoring students frequently hit the newspapers suicides entrance so that people have concerns of this group are subject to psychological pressure. Reporter query from the network to the calendar years 1977 to 2011 the number of national college entrance examination, admission numbers and acceptance rate, calculated the 35-year cumulative exam 88,318,000 passengers. Last year the reporter who interviewed a number of different years of tutoring students. In the "Chinese-style tutorial" in an article, the reporter wrote: "The kind of dull atmosphere cram non-personal experience is not aware of." In the "old tutoring students" wooden eyes, cram the day "is not on campus ballad "same table for you" in the days of 'always blue' sky belongs only to the University, cram all year round, overcast day, muggy summer heat, such as the upcoming evening thunderstorms, humid, oppressive, so people can not tolerate and next; while extremely cold winter, life and the future of all the ice to the extreme, "While it is not known, several suicide wooden entrance tutoring students feel as if like to cram feeling, but in Sichuan. Yang Yuan Chongzhou suicide repeat students repeat classes where the students view, "repeat students and graduating students of different next year, almost no chance, because there is no youth coming year, has been no turning back." According to "China Youth Daily" reported that the 20-year-old girl on the table every test scores, will do a set of computing problems. Before the entrance of the "two clinics," she took the test 457 points. Next to her subjects scores on achievement table to add the language "1 minute", Math plus "17 points" English plus "17 minutes" ...... so she could reach out "520." She is still a bit, "520-457 = 63." In the vertical side of the equation,[url=http://keikyu.sakura.ne.jp/cgi-bin/joyful/regist.cgi]http://keikyu.sakura.ne.jp/cgi-bin/joyful/regist.cgi[/url], she wrote the words: "Believe in yourself, down to earth." Every time reporting test scores to the mother, Yang Yuan will slightly "modified" look. Hu Qun mother impression, the daughter told her three diagnostic test scores were "510,490,500." However, transcripts from her point of view, this is her himself "extra points" after achievable score. Comprehensive "China Youth Daily" and other psychological difficulties tutoring students: lack of confidence and low self-esteem due to the many adverse effects of external factors and tutoring students themselves some negative factors, making them suffer greater psychological pressure, with varying degrees of psychological problems and vulnerable to psychological difficulties. One dilemma: the lack of confidence and low self-esteem, it is difficult to get rid of inferiority complex is easy to repeat students failed the entrance examination to make their own negative attribution and evaluation. Such as: I am better than others; I was very incompetent and so on. They will test the impact of failure generalization to go in life, once suffered setbacks cast doubt on their ability, or take a strong self-defense did not dare to face psychological problems, but also easily lead to low self-esteem. 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Rhododendron Chang, senior psychology counseling center experts pointed out that the graduating students of different entrance, tutoring students in psychological self-driven,[url=http://www.geol.sci.hiroshima-u.ac.jp/~environ/cgi-bin/lightlight.cgi?res=211225]http://www.geol.sci.hiroshima-u.ac.jp/~environ/cgi-bin/lightlight.cgi?res=211225[/url], self-transcendence particularly strong idea, if psychologically reach goals or expectations can not, can not be achieved, it is likely to cause self-anger, resentment of their own, creating greater psychological pressure. Many tutoring students, if not from the students, from family, to get a sense of support, it will form a greater pressure, even if admitted, will feel life has no meaning. If this continues, often to carry out the destruction of their own to end the suffering. "A lot of people before committing suicide, will take a variety of ways to say goodbye to the people around them, in fact, this is a distress signal, and therefore, when a student or a child from manic to suddenly calm, parents and teachers need to pay special attention to timely intervention . " Azalea said. This reporter Pan Jing (original title: a tutorial entrance born unnatural deaths (Figure))
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